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“Twenty years ago, as now, most couples told us they’d met through their friends or family, or in college,” wrote the editor, Bob Woletz, in 2012.
“For a period that ran into the late 1990s, a number said, often sheepishly, that they had met through personal advertisements.”But in 2018, seven of the 53 couples profiled in the Vows column met on dating apps.
Her now-husband Mike, though, was “clean cut, no tattoos.
Completely opposite of what I would usually go for.” She decided to take a chance on him after she’d laughed at a funny line in his Tinder bio.
“People who are not very similar to their romantic partners end up at a greater risk for breaking up or for divorce,” she says.
And in the ’ more populous Wedding Announcements section, 93 out of some 1,000 couples profiled this year met on dating apps—Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Happn, and other specialized dating apps designed for smaller communities, like JSwipe for Jewish singles and Muz Match for Muslims.
The year before, 71 couples whose weddings were announced by the Matt Lundquist, a couples therapist based in Manhattan, says he’s started taking on a less excited or expectant tone when he asks young couples and recently formed couples how they met.
You don’t look like what I thought you looked like,’ and walked away.”But other users complain of rudeness even in early text interactions on the app.
Some of that nastiness could be chalked up to dating apps’ dependence on remote, digital communication; the classic “unsolicited dick pic sent to an unsuspecting match” scenario, for example.